Forgotten Baby

Usually when I get request for emergency session its because someone has sudden accident/injury, are in ICU or hospital, had a severe allergy attack!

But in February I had a request from a client who was emotionally distressed to the point she had been unable to sleep and could not stop crying for a week after hearing news report of a 3 year old who was unwittingly left sleeping in cry for 6 hours and was found dead by a parent!

My client had 2 young kids of her own and kept thinking what if this happens to them! Somehow she was convinced it would happen to them!

She was a rational, professional, educated person and a loving, devoted mom! She knew logically that was not possible!

I fitted in this client for a 30 mts short session during my lunch break as I was booked out for next 3 weeks and she couldn't wait!

As soon as she started relating what was going on, I felt strongly this had happened to her! Not in past life, not ancestral trauma she had inherited and not childhood memory re-emerging! It felt more recent!

She was hysterical and could not stop speaking and crying first 10 minutes of our call, I had to be firm and ask her!

She assured me it had never happened to her or anyone she knew in her entire life!

I trust my intuition so I trusted when I was guided to ask her about our last session and how it had helped her! Whether her vacation after 2 years of restrictions and reunion with family went well!

She told me it was amazing and best time they had as family and all the things they did except for brief interruption for a hospital visit! She glossed right over saying it was not a big deal -just few hours but than she did all these wonderful things with her family!

I knew that was what I needed to hear! I asked her about the hospital visit and out it came -she was there fro D&C to clear her womb from 5 week old foetus that was not viable and had no heartbeat!

She could not see that she had left her baby behind! Had not acknowledged, grieved or mourned that life!

When I mentioned that she was confused! Why would she mourn a baby she did not want, did not know and that had no heartbeat! She already had perfect family and frankly she admitted she was quite relieved to have the procedure and get on with her life to be honest!

I explained that life is life, whether it lasted 5 seconds, 5 minutes or 5 days and in this case-5 weeks!

She had not thought about the baby in flurry of activities and reunion with her family!

Even if her mind and heart were happy with her decision and had moved on, the body was holding the pain of loss and that is exactly why she was reacting out of proportion to the news article of "forgetting your baby"!

How can anyone forget their baby-she has asked repeatedly, in tears! But thats what she had done unknowingly!

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In 7 minutes remaining of the session, I cleared the trauma and asked her to hold a brief ceremony for the unborn soul that had chosen to stay with her for 5 weeks!

I could tell she was perplexed! Luckily she listened to the healing as instructed and messaged me after 5 days to say she was feeling much calmer and had done the ceremony!

Sometimes life throws curveball our way! It could be physical symptom, like pain, disease, discomfort or emotional symptom, like sadness, overwhelm, anger or mental symptom like, anxiety, depression, confusion!

Nothing happens without REASON! Things do not happen RANDOMLY!

Everything has a a CAUSE-a START and an END!

It is my privilege to help my clients find that reason-to find the start and help it all end! Sometimes in just 30 mts-thats all it takes when you are ready to let go!

If you or anyone you know needs help with physical, mental or emotional issue-please reach out! I am here to serve!

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